Introducing your Partner to Keyholding
Real Life examples of successful and unsuccessful ways of introducing your wife or girlfriend to keyholding:
Lucky - 5th August 2004
I have had interest in chastity for a long time and even made my own "bird cage", which I have used without my wife's knowledge (i.e. at work, when she was away from home for some days etc.)
Last time she was
away for 5 days I used the cage and decided, very nervous about her reactions,
to hand her the keys when she returned. She
But she still was
very uncertain of my expectations as she really doesn't like to be the dominant.
I have also used the web extensively to watch pictures and stories of all sorts
of Femdom and have been trying pushing her into
approximately 6 months ago. I have thought a lot about what it is I really want
from this and the main driver is to feel intense sexual
So last week I
told her about this, that all I really want from her sexually is to feel that
she is my sex goddess, that she is my fantasies (very much inspired by the
homepages of "A Married Woman's Guide to a Happier and More Fulfilling Marriage"
and that of Elise Sutton) and that I wanted the
So with butterflies in my stomach I said to her that by rationing my orgasms I would believe that we could achieve some of these goals. When presented this way she finally understood that this is different from the scenes/pictures I have shown her.
It is indeed about
wanting to improve our sexual relationship, but with
So now she rations
my orgasms to one every second week. I still don't dare to talk about using a
chastity device, in the fear that she might reject the whole idea for good. So
it is on an honour system and I hope I am able to keep my self from
masturbating. Hoping she will find that she enjoys the control and my
attention to her, she might want to lock me up sometime.
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